Impressing someone has never been a cakewalk, particularly if you want to impress a girl during the initial days of college. I still look back to my graduation days, when apart from hustling to build a bright career, we all students were involved in the chase of a date. A time when both the genders would do their best to impress each other. Despite that, only a part of the population would make it to the magnificent success.
Still, with time, the rest abandoned the idea by consoling themselves that it’s not their thing, not neglecting the fact that they were the ones to attain the top placements (pun intended).
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Jokes apart, this is the time when most long-term relationships bloom. Even if you could not take the college time relationship any farther, you still would agree with me on the point that college days were the best days you’ve ever lived, with a ton of alluring and blissful memories you won’t forget till your last day.
Guys who are new to this college life often have difficulties getting a desirable date. Finding a date, you admire the most seems to be challenging. So, what should you do in this situation? When was the last time you perceived a girl falling for you? If you could never reach this moment, my sympathies are with you. Never mind, we’ve got your back.
In this particular blog post, I’ll share with you some genuine ways through which you can impress a girl. I won’t ask you to go and utter some cheesy dialogues while mimicking a hero. Trust me; she’ll never ever look up to you as a date again. Whether looking out for a serious relationship or merely casual dating, you have got to follow the tips we have shared below to find the “one and only” for yourself.
Here are the Tried and Tested Ways to Impress a Girl in College
1. Personal grooming is a masterstroke
How do you first introduce yourself to a girl? When do you talk with them?
When they see you for the first time, it’s when the conversation begins. It may sound unearthly, but this is how it is. How you carry yourself is the first thing the other person observes.
The way you are dressed and how well-groomed you are set an undertone of how the girls will take you as. Now, don’t misinterpret when I say that you need to have a decent demeanor. This doesn’t seem to mean that your appearance should resemble any famous superstar. It would help if you did some rudimentary changes or will have to do some extra add-ons:
● Wear appropriate clothes for college. Ensure you are neither underdressed nor overdressed; in both cases, the girl will not notice you, or she’ll set a wrong image of you.
● Make sure your clothes are properly ironed.
● Get acquainted with maintaining basic hygiene.
● Smell good always because a bad body odor is hard to tolerate. You can use deodorants or any other perfumes to eradicate the same.
● A bad breath can be troublesome; ensure you’re scraping your tongue.
● Mind your gait.
● Always keep an appropriate posture.
● Make sure your hair is neatly made, and don’t forget to trim your beard when required.
2. Strike a conversation
If you want to impress a girl, make sure you are going and talking to her. Be confident while interacting, and ensure you do not sound stupid. Mostly girls like boys who are confident when speaking. After the conversation between you two, try to know more about her, what she likes, dislikes, hobbies, etc. Talk less, hear the next person more.
3. Join college clubs
Connecting yourself with various college clubs can be a master move. College clubs provide numerous opportunities to show your latent talent to the population.
Who doesn’t like extraordinary and talented boys? Maybe impressing a girl will be just a cakewalk for you after this.
If you both have joined the same club, then CHEERS, you guys will get a lot of time to share each other’s company.
4. Group studies can get her closer to you
Got butterflies in your stomach. Well, group studies can get you closer to the girl. If you have any strong subject, you can explain it to her and if she has any, go ask her to explain it to you. This way, you’re getting the best of both worlds.
On the one hand, it’s helping you to score well in your exams, and on the other hand, you’re getting a good long time to spend with her. This step will help you establish a much more reliable and supportive bond with the girl.
So the next time, where are you meeting her? ……………. LIBRARY.
5. Attend and participate in college events
As said earlier, the more you participate in events, the more chances you being noticed by the girls. It usually happens that most students attend these events, and among them can be the ones you admire the most.
Hence the possibility of you being noticed by her increases.
6. Attend mutual friend’s parties
Attending a mutual friend’s party can be a good step towards impressing a girl. You’ll probably get to meet her at those parties and know what casual meet-ups can be much more impactful than the rest. Share talks, jokes, drinks, and hearts; dance with her; make her feel special.
You’ll get many opportunities to impress her and attract her to you.
7. Keep a welcoming attitude
It would help if you were approachable in case you want girls to get impressed by you because girls don’t like over-smart, arrogant and rude boys. Ensure that every time you talk to a girl, you are listening to her and comprehending her. Don’t keep this attitude that you know everything and others are fools. Such boys are considered not more than a jerk by girls.
If a girl approaches, listen to her with utmost sensibility and reply maturely.
If you are having casual talks, try to create something fun that could make the whole conversation memorable.
8. Commend her
Now, who on this earth doesn’t like hearing words in their praises. And I believe that boys are an expert in doing so and girls are an expert in receiving them. Just go with some basic statements like-
Hey! You look so beautiful today.
Hey! I admire how you manage all these things together.
Your smile made my day. ,etc.
These compliments will add to the chances of you impressing her.
9. Stop calling her all the time
Now, considering that you have been in contact with the girl for some time, you have her number. Or we can consider the other case where you managed to get her number. In either case, make sure you are not always calling her. It can reap some undesirable and unexpected opposite reactions ( like her getting frustrated), and all your efforts can go in vain at once.
Make sure you’re calling her for some legit reason. Be polite while you are speaking to her over call. Excessive calls can take her away from you.
10. Respect her and her personal space
Though this tip is suggested at the end of this article, don’t judge it as a least considerable one. Respect is something that every girl looks forward to from a boy. Respect her for who and how she is in real.
Make sure you’re not invading her personal space and life. Value her time and her work.
Conclusion
If you are availing of any or multiple tips we just gave you, I am damn sure you’re going to impress the girl any time soon. Ensure that you are yourself through the entire process. Finally comes the time when you have to make the ultimate move. Be confident while doing so, and flatter her with your dazzling charm.
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